Students help students
The Munich Nightline has an open ear
The idea of a consulting phone line for students that is run by students first came up in the UK, where Nightlines are now an integral part of many colleges. Germany’s first Nightline was established in Heidelberg in 1994 – and today, there are 15 nightlines throughout Germany.
A concept by Carl Rogers
The “Münchener Zuhörtelefon”, which was founded in the winter semester 2010/11, is only run by students from Munich’s universities – as an honorary commitment. They are trained by experienced “Nightliners”, to ensure that they will be able to cope with especially demanding calls as well. Following a concept that was established by psychologist Carl Rogers (who coined the term “client-centered psychoanalysis”), the Nightliners offer no advice.
Rather, the focus is on active listening, as Nightliner Adrian emphasizes: “Our main task is simply to listen. If we can help to channel the caller’s thoughts a bit, we’ve already achieved a lot. We don’t want to give any advice that might not help the caller in the end.” The caller knows what the problem is – so it’s best if he/she works out the solution. The Nightliners merely offer support.
At eye level with the caller
The Nightliners benefit from the conversations – which can last for ten minutes or sometimes even one hour – as well. “You learn to listen, to put yourself in someone else’s position, and to take time to listen to your counterpart,” Adrian explains. “In addition, you learn to set your limits and to communicate them. As Nightliners, we wouldn’t be authentic if we weren’t allowed to say so if a certain problem is simply too much. We want to be at eye level with the caller, and it’s very important to show empathy and to be authentic.”
- You can reach the Nightline on Tuesdays and Thursdays – from 9 pm to 0.30 am – by calling +49 (0)89 – 3571-3571.
More information:
Nightline München